Category: Aggression

My Child Is Aggressive – What Should I Do?

  How Can I Handle My Child’s Aggressive Behaviors? None of the suggestions in this video with Patty Wipfler include controlling, forcing, or punishing your child. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. Watch the video

Is Your Toddler Too Angry to Sleep?

Is your toddler too angry to sleep? Read on to learn how to read the signs and get a solution.  By Lyra L’Estrange Does it ever seem like your toddler is just unsettled? Can’t be happy?

Mit tegyünk, ha harap a gyerekünk?

Sok 1-3 év közötti kisgyerek esik át harapós időszakon. Megharapják anyát, apát vagy egy másik gyereket, és ezzel nem kis aggodalmat keltenek. Ennek a viselkedésnek semmi köze sincs ahhoz, hogy egy gyerek mennyire jó, vagy

What Do I Do When My Child Hits Me

What to do when a child hits is a common parenting question, and a tough one. Watch as Certified Instructor Susan Derby explains how she handled it when her …

A Playful Way to Stop Biting and Pinching

a guest post from Stephanie Parker When my daughter was three she started pinching and biting me. I was pretty shocked as she’d never done anything like that before. I tried setting a limit and

When Another Child Hurts Your Child

It’s not helpful for children, or for us, to be taught that others are bad. It disempowers us. If others are “bad,” then they have a condition we can’t help them with. We have to defend ourselves against a force that we can’t see or influence. This view is far more empowering: it is hurt people who hurt people.

Playing Away My Son’s Aggressive Behaviour

I had to keep a very close watch on my son, and be able to move in fast to protect myself or my daughter when he decided to have a swipe! But as the time went on, these incidents were fewer, and he was laughing more, and including his sister more in the games we were playing. I could sense we were all feeling very close.

Kissing All the Yucky Stuff Out – a Playful Way to Stop the Hitting!

My four-year-old son, feeling disconnected from me, hit his little sister over the head quite hard. I couldn’t get there in time to physically stop him, and my daughter ran to me screaming. While I held her, I looked over to my son, sitting by himself looking so hurt, guilty, and upset too.

帮助太过争强好胜的孩子放松下来

对于你儿子这种要当第一和最棒的模式(思维定势)没有快捷的纠正办法。如果有的话,我们的世界就会和睦的多了。这种“需要成为最好的”实际上是我们社会的通病。有多少次你被要求同意我们的国家是世界上最棒的国家?我们从小就被训练成竞争型的。我们中的一些人能够认识到每个人,每个城市,每个国家都有许多品质值得赞赏,总有一些方面是作为一个人,一个城市,或一个国家可以相互学习的。但是为了感觉良好,我们许多人都养成了事事上都要处于”优势”的渴求。

Why Does My Child Hurt Others?

Listen to this free presentation to learn the causes of your child’s aggressive impulses and understand what is happening for them when the impulse to hurt others takes over. Join Certified Parenting by Connection instructors